Patricia (Patty) M. Shay, 59

Patricia (Patty) M. Shay, 59, died Tuesday, August 28, 2012 at Barnes Jewish Hospital in St Louis, MO.
Patty was born on January 9, 1953 in Marshall, MO to the late Henry L. and Helen M. Hoff.

Patty was a founding member and Senior Vice President at the First Southern Bank in Carbondale, IL. She was a member of St Francis Xavier Catholic Church in Carbondale where she served on the Parish Council.
Patty biggest joy in life came from her children and grandchildren. She was an amazing mother and grandmother. Any free time she had she would dedicate to spending time with them. Whether she was traveling to St. Louis to see her daughter or to Denver to spend time with her son, Patty always put the needs of her children and her grandchildren first. She also never forgot her extended family and stayed involved in her siblings' families' lives. Patty was a strong and successful woman with a big personality and a great sense of humor. Her bright smile and quick wit made her fast friends with anyone she met. Her selflessness and giving nature made her friends with them for life.

When she wasn't devoting time to her family, Patty would set aside time to volunteer within the community with organizations such as Carbondale Community Arts, Girl Scouts of America and various other women's organizations.

She is survived by her son Matthew Shay of Littleton, CO and daughter Sarah Shay of St Louis, MO; two grandchildren Taylor Shay of St Louis and Max Shay of Littleton, CO; her mother Helen Hoff of Marshall, MO; her brothers Steve Hoff of Pilot Grove, MO, Ed Hoff of St Louis, MO, John Hoff and Tom Hoff both of Marshall, MO; two sisters Barbara Churchill of Columbia, MO and Mary Lammers of Boonville, MO; numerous nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews. She was preceded in death by her father and her brother Michael.

Funeral mass will be held at St Joseph Catholic Church of Pilot Grove, MO Saturday, September 1 at 11:00 AM with burial in St Joseph Catholic Cemetery. Rosary and visitation will be held Friday, August 31 from 5 to 7:00 PM at the St Joseph Catholic Church in Pilot Grove MO.

A memorial service will be held Monday, September 3, 11:00 AM at St Francis Xavier Church, Carbondale, IL, with a family receiving line at 10:30 AM.

Arrangements are under the direction of Meisenheimer Funeral Home, Pilot Grove, MO.
Memorials may be made to the American Heart Association.